Search for Purpose - Scam or Reality?

In today's world, to me, it seems crazy that so many people are still in search for their purpose.

Although if I think more, then it's not so surprising... but let's change that!

Today we have so many tools to help us define & understand ourselves. Tools like astrology, numerology, countless psychological tests and other systems that one way or another tell us about our nature and how to apply ourselves to life.

And yet, we brush it off as not important and carry on the search.

In all fairness, I truly believe that every human being is so much more than any given system, and would never suggest you to follow your horoscope blindly, to a tee. But any of these systems/tests can be a great place to start!

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WE ARE UNIQUE

I hope you will agree that we all have something unique about us, even if you think that you are not that unique. Things that we like or don't. Things that excite us or make us cry. Knowledge that we acquire throughout our lives, on purpose or accidentally. All that and much more make us who we are & make it impossible for someone else to become you.

Yes, we are human beings, and have common traces, but we are also not completely the same even physically.

And all that Nature or Nurture debate doesn't really matter. It doesn't change the fact that even twins can grow up being two very different people. Nor does it change the fact that there is always something that you are deeply attracted to, your unique view point on things.

That's why relying on any of the systems would be foolish, but it doesn't mean that everything is a lie and completely not usable.

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IMPORTANT TO KNOW

Two common things I notice all the time, and I believe you should also be aware of, is that horoscopes & similar systems are:

▪️either adhered to and used as an excuse, rather that empowerment

▪️or completely ignored.

When purpose, on the other hand is treated:

▪️as something rather not important or

▪️very much magical, almost out of this world. Not real in other words.

So people are searching for magical powers that you see in films, rather than what will give them an actual, real value here right now. They strive to save the world, travel the galaxies, but not to be here, engage with the now and be happy in this moment.

So baring that in mind let me answer the question at the beginning of this post: Purpose is not a scam, but the search for it is.

While you are searching for fairies and unicorns, real knowledge seems so useless and uninspiring... Real life is postponed. You loose a lot of time bypassing things, that could bring you a lot of value & change everything already today. To only then what?

Do you know how many people on their death bed regret things they didn't do? Life they didn't live?

Life is real, constant search for secret powers not so much...

WHAT TO DO

So now that you are aware of it all, let's see what you can actually do.

❶ Take your horoscope, or do a personality test and read what it says about you.

❷ Note to yourself things you agree with, and what boils your blood. What is new to you, or eye opening? What inspired you? Learn yourself and make notes how you can apply this today.

❸ & the most important part - don't believe anything 100%. Take it all, regardless of how tempting and sweet it sounds, as an information that needs to be tested.

Your horoscope tells you that you are a great teacher? Test it and see how acting this way makes you feel, what feedback you get. It says you are stubborn, don't just agree, but think if it serves you & when it's not the case?

Use this informtion as a starting point to:

▪️ understand yourself &

▪️ build your life around you.

▪️ To empower you. To make you happy. To shine your potential to the world ✨

So that at the end of the life you have tons of happy memories & no regrets!

Until the next time,

Renata Dar